Okay, okay. You're not a douchebag, but you're being neurotic, and being neurotic will totally kill any spark that the relationship may have had. Trust me, baby, I've been Ms. Carrie Bradshaw (minus the column), lived in your city, had many neurotic moments with many neurotic New York men. Do not strangle it before it has a chance to live, okay? It's a fine line between wanting to tell her how you feel and being a stalker. Spark is good. Go with it, but go easy. Remember: it's never a good idea to tell someone you love them on the first date, no matter what your definition of love is.
