i think that the new place looks great

i'm one of those people that try to be as self reliant as possible. it's how i have always been from an early age.

I, too try to take everything on by myself but it doesn't always work. Remember, we don'tknow each other that well but I would help in a heart beat if you asked.

You'd be surprised how many people would not mind giving you a hand.

I'm a complete control freak - and as such end up doing a lot of things without help because I want things done my way. But even I have learned how to ask for help when I need it - even though it generally involves me telling someone else what to do

You know that I would do anything for you, so stop this 'I don't have anyone in Philly to help me' business. I'll paint, I'll be all butch and put furniture together, etc. I already told you that I can borrow an SUV to help, and I'd be more than happy to do your packing. It's as relaxing as ironing, except that I do the packing clothed. And you DO have family here (points at self), weirdo. ♥ ♥

do those hanging lamps stay in the apartment, cause if they do ill be there every weekend,
im like a moth to those things

Apparently you've underestimated our little community here, huh? I'm not physically able to help move(bad knees, heavy objects and steps of any type don't mix), but I'd be glad to provide a pick-em up truck(Lola is always up to the challenge) and a couple of cases of Pottsville's finest refreshment.