WHAT how dare that F'n lump even try to move in on my territory!! WTF...I am glad your mom is there for you !!
I adore you and the only pain I want inflicted on you is the pain I do!! Please take care and KNOW we are here for YOU!!
Best of luck in dealing with your medical situation. I'll be following your blog to see how it all turns out for you. I have a sister with Hodgkins (not really a "lady" cancer I know), so I have a pretty qualified understanding of what it must be like for you right now. My sister never had to undergo surgery, but the treatments were NO JOKE. Chemo and radiation therapy kept her in a constant state of nausea; and that didn't even include the impact of all the meds either. She did beat it years ago, but its back now and she's fighting it again. Hang tough girlie, and hold tight to those people who will get you through this.