Well, I must be doing SOMETHING right--I've been happily married for fourteen years and really DO want to spend the rest of my life with my wife... and I'm not about to hit on you, because I genuinely respect her, you and all women. But I certainly understand where you're coming from and I truly hope that you reach the greater understanding you have every right to expect.
I agree pretty much completely. I'm glad you understand that when it comes down to it, we are all retards. Just varying degrees of idiocracy. Those who have the least amount of stupidness in them are the ones who have been in an obscenely small amount of relationships, both romantic or friendships. The degree of dumbassery increases with the amount of relationships formed... kinda like instead of learning, we get stupider... I wrote a paper on this for my English 1C class... I'm not joking.
HA! I've made my peace with being a moron(wow there are a lot of ways to call someone stupid) a long time ago. I just try to apologize when I'm told I'm being a moron.
Reminded me of that line from Tropic Thunder, "Like a moron, to be moronical, like the dumbest motherfucker who ever lived."
incidentally, if your angry enough, you could use that quote to define males... man this self deprecation thing I do has gotten pretty far.
It works the other way too. Me: "We need to talk about our relationship; at night you're always in front of your computer, and we never get to talk." Her: "I don't have time this year; I signed up for an on-line course last week and that's going to take all my spare time."
He might have commitment issues or he might be waiting for a special time to tell you how he feels and possibly give you a ring while he's at it. Don't count out the male gender just yet, sometimes (rarely) we can surprise you.
I like your blog, except it describes my ex-girlfriend a bit so i'm coming to the conclusion, finally, that it isn't Men or Women....it's both! Ha, I know it sounds crazy, but I think there a good handful of very inconsiderate people on both sides of the sexes. People are selfish, in general, and sometimes will never be satisfied satisfying others. GOod Luck!
guys will never get the full understanding of the important meaning of events 100%...
its sorta has to be beatin into them over and over... or after a while if you get lucky they start to let the big bad, "i'm a tuff guy) attitude go out the windo and start opening up to there emotional side.
hell i took just about 2 almost 3 years to get James to finally start to really open up and say what he means and mean what he says....
and ya know allot of that has to do with him growing up... age really does matter when it comes to expressing emotions.
he was 20 when we first started going out and he had allot of growing up to do since then. a life long union was not what he was thinking about back then...
but time ages people and four years later allot has changed... keep that in mind.
anyway.... on a lighter note... whats new....?
how long till you go back to your mom's place.
if ya need any help let me know... talk ta ya later
like i have always said..... guys, speak english, and girls... speak telepathy! when i guys says "yada yada yada", thats what he means! but the girl, will try to translate that in to the female version, which never makes any sence, then she says "yada yada yada" in responce, expecting the guys to translate it in to the female version, which he can't! so you are left to two people who end up hating each other because they just don;t speak each others language!!!
Remo