There's no such thing as too many sexual partners. Ask a christian and you'll get two for an answer. lol. It's all subjective.
And I think, if you would've googled or hit up barnes and nobles, you waited for one girl, and she was down to do anything, you got a lot of game time in, you might be just as good. But at the end of the day, who gives a fuck, right? Apparently your good now and that's all that matters. Nobody has complained and you got yours haha
I think, from personal experience, that "saving yourself" for that one person is kind of dumb unless you're already in a relationship with that person and they're not or you're not ready yet. I think putting out for anyone for the first time is dumb, unless that one person was like Jessica Alba or something, then by all means black and blue that shit. I think there's too much emphases on making it special for the first time. Just have a good time, that's all that matters. If the first time is a good memory then right on, but who cares?
I am curious, how many people have you slept with? haha
Haha. Well thanks, man. Yeah, I got laid on my 20th birthday. See, for 2 years starting at 17 I was in a long distances relationship. And being the hopeless romantic I am, I was saving it for her. We'll, she up and left. I pined for her for a year and said fuck it, I'm getting laid for my birthday, so I slept with a friend. The sex wasn't good, shit, I didn't even come. But it wasn't a bad experience, it wasn't great either. It was just as it is; sex.
I've slept with 10 girls this past 7 years. Because I've always had the whole "I only sleep with folks I'm in a relationship with". But you know, sometimes I get really drunk and one thing leads to another haha. Something I'm working on not doing anymore. But that's just me and I don't judge anyone that does different. Sex for me is a want, not a need. Going without it due to my own personal standards doesn't bug me. And due to these standards I have shot down a lot of women which seems to confuse them.
I can vouch that I think the best sex is with someone you trust and/or love. Especially if they love sex. Try everything in the book, sometimes you get good feed back, sometimes you don't. Lovers are made not born. Then there's the few that god must've built for sex haha. First time goes right out the box.
And love SF. I was up there about two weeks ago for a guitar wolf show at bottom of the hill. Have fun, man.
I'm a christian and I don't think 2 is to many *rolls eyes* =/
but besides that seriously it doesn't matter.
I do think it's important to be able to show a little resistance and not bone anything that walks, but other than that be safe and have fun. =) I've had sex with 8 people in the last 5 years and I'm okay with that number
