Sorry things are so crappy. Sometimes people just do not understand why we end relationships. It may not necessarily be about them or whatever. I hate when they act out before knowing the whole situation. I had the same experience with my ex minus the violent outburst. Those normally occurred while we were together. Eh. Anyhow, I would have stayed friends with him, but he refused to listen to my reasoning for ending it. It was not what he assumed. So I understand at least partly. My new motto is get rid of the crap in your life and live it for you. I hope things get better for you and things go well with the trial. *hugs* Keep those of us interested updated. Until next time....

OMG ... Sorry you're having to put up with that type of behaviour.

Just stumbled on your blog, sounds like a crapy time. Just know not all guys are douchebags! bty I love cheese too!

My only problem and I admit i reacted baddly when megan and I stoped being friends was that She never told me what was going on. She just assumed I understood what was happening and her reasons. I new she was mad at me but i never understood why. to me she just out of the blue didn't want anything to do with me. I believe if she would have explained or tried to explain things would have been different. I believe everyone has the right to understand why something happens and sometimes you need to step away and cool down and then go back and talk. Yet you have to respect the other persons feelings. Violence and silence are never the right answers they just make things worse. I am not saying that you did this. not at all. its just that you could be megans doppleganner( and no that isn't the reason I friended you though it is the reason I first looked at you pics) and I approve of your last statement. Makes me kinda wish megan had your wisdom. Yes I still love her to death by the way. but that is anouther matter.