Being 33 years old now, *gulp* (and now you know my big secret!), I ofttimes wonder if people feel that way about me...
(Though, in my own defense, I must say I look more late twenties...thanks to a penchant for avoiding tanning, lots of moisturizer, and good genetics!)
But still, I do worry about that sometimes...like, are you flirting back because you feel sorry for me?!?!?
Insecurity sucks.
And I don't think you're heartless, it's just reality that we're attracted to whom we're attracted to! I once had some very drunk, very unattractive friend's-girlfriend corner me at a party and say, "You're my muse, Kayte, my muse!" And I was disgusted, not flattered at all.
So add me to the Heartless Club too, cuz apparently I fit right in!
and *ding* you are correct, 110 IS too hot.