assmar sucks! it amazes me how something like work can affect everything about me. i guess it's the one place in my world where i've always felt competent and i hate how this has gone to hell. and you are right about joe - he's a keeper...i wish you cyber hugs and good thoughts and hope that you get out of your job. you are way too smart and hard working to be on the receiving end of anyone's shite....
I'm going to have to steal the Dunkin' Donuts one. We are no longer allowed to bring Dunkies and we have been requested not to purchase Dunkin' Donuts prouducts "including munchkins."
thanks! i am sending you new job finding vibes...it's amazing how destructive some people can be to our general "psyches"...but, yeah, i'm the one in control now (sort of...)