Girly Rant
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I'm that girl that only is friends with boys. Up until about a year ago my best friend was a guy named Tim. He was the only person that I could talk to when I was going through all the shit my ex put me through. It made me feel so much better about everything when he would tell me that he would kill my ex for me. Honestly, the only reason I didn't kill myself was because of him.
When my ex and I finally broke up we became even closer. There was always sexual tension and he was always the last person I talked to before I went to bed. Even though he had a girlfriend, I came first. He broke up with his girlfriend in april so he could be with me. Bobby and I started dating the same day. Tim then got really weird around me and started avoiding me. He and his girlfriend got back together, and even though he hates her, he stays with her because it's better than being alone.
Very, very rarely he'll contact me. We'll chat for a few minutes like we used to, and the second Bobby is mentioned he leaves. I don't get it.
Hey Pervs,
I'm officially done with school today! All exams are done, and I move into my camper palace in two weeks. I'll post pictures etc later.
Stockholm
Tell Tim to quit being a baby. Pouting when you don't get what you want is for 6 year olds and spoiled brats. Who hasn't heard "you're such a great friend! let's just be friends!"? If you really miss him, tell him that, and then lay down the guidelines. Things like "I know it makes you unhappy, but Bobby is my BF, so please try to be supportive." My best friend and I went through this a couple times back and forth when we were much younger than we are now (I'm talking 16 & 17). You can eventually work past it and have your best friend back.
While i like the idea that i can be there for all my friends, once my personal sanity comes into play, i have to take a step back. It's rather selfish to expect him to be there for you, irregardless of his own feelings. You have to watch out for number one first. Give him time, give him space and things may change, of course they may not either. All through your life your going to have people coming into it, and leaving it. Things change, people change, situations change that's how life works. Enjoy the people you love while you can, they may be gone tomorrow. Even if they do still stay in your life, as people age, their preferences change and things may not always be the same. Enjoy the things you have right now, right now.
And just so you know i would kill your ex for you. Hell i'll kill Bobby since you said once he dies you're moving to Ohio to be with me, errr, uhm...."for you"