Hahhha...you sound like us. When Em and I got married, we celebrated with dinner at Montezumas, and then went back to work/study the next day...no holiday, no honeymoon, no fancy shindigs...life just didn't let us. We plan on doing something special one day (maybe go overseas for a few weeks) when our little guy is old enough to leave with relatives without too much hassle.
I just can't stay away from this place, I miss you guys too much so can we be friends again pleeease, sad and fickle I know but there you go in the end for me it is about the your friendship rather than sg that keeps me here.
Have fun at your party!