thanks for the congrats but it's not that exciting. I just sold a couple of short stories that provided a nice paycheck.
Open relationships well I guess it just depends on the people involved. The people involved need to have the same definition and understanding of what they want. It can work really well or it can be a really bad situation.
hmmmm. I've been in open relationships before. It all depends on the people. Mine didn't work, clearly, because we both wanted something more exclusive but we didnt want to ruin what we already had. If both people are honest and genuinely want to be with other people while maintaining some sense of intamacy, and they understand the risks, its cool.
Like all relationships, it just depends on the people.
oooh how i love a long hot shower
my roommates know they should probably use the facilites before i get ahold of the bathroom, because i can stay in the steam forever.
Open relationships never work in the end. They're wonderful in theory.. but seriously flawed.
And yeah, members only journal entries would help me greatly, but I have no idea if he's a member or not. He has a way of just.. showing up. His fault.. he got to read details about the facts he already new.. and it's the details that're gonna eat him alive.
Open relationships are on the fence. really just depends on who the people are. Most girls will have nothing to do with it and most guys are all for it. ::shrug:: I've known people who were in the situation and have seen it go both ways. Not sure how I personally feel about it. I really have no desire to fool around with anyone other than CinderOla and for as unjealous a person as Ola says I am, I think it would bother be a bit. ::shrug again::
Open relationships? They can work. But they are risky, because often one of the partners is more 'open' than the other! This will, of course, lead to problems. It's rare that two people will meet and say, "yeah, you're special, but let's fuck other people as well..!" lol
The people that are able to make them work. They get into the 'scene' and meet other people doing the same thing, meet willing partners, swap underpants and all that. They find out whether it's really for them I suppose.
For me personally, well I say if you want to have sex with different people, that's fine, but why get into a relationship? Be fuck buddies for a while, enjoy the companionship and see how it goes.
Open relationships are fine...as long as you know what you are getting out of it as well as the other person. You have to know that the other person understands what's going on and won't have freak out moments and vice versa...cause then you come off crazy. If that works well, normally it becomes more serious and then you or the other person may freak out further down the line...sorry if this doesn't make any sense.
On another note, living on your own...rocks! Sure, you may not have as much cash flow as if when you are splitting rent and bills, but it makes up for it in the end.
not boring at all...i'm thinking of going to both the camping trip and the hershey park deal too...we will see...next time you come to nyc, we must take pictures, for my next insomniac picture story
I can't wait.
Open relationship? What's that?