We have the same taste in art and JunkerJane!!!
I think that you can overcome the MaryStuartMasterson curse it is a bit of work and may require a bit of introspection and change of venue for friendships but if you truly are wanting to, you can. Then you can reintroduce the aspects of you that men want to "hang" with once you have them seeing you as a woman they want "to be with" instead. It can actually be a deadly combo and one that men gravitate towards. You can do it!!! But...do you really want to?
Mary Stuart Masterson have not seen here in any movies lately. The Abyss was the first movie I watched that she was in. If that is the same actress I am thinking of.