There will be other ladies. Easy-to-talk-to ones. Flirting is best when you're not anxious and it feels natural.

Flirt with her anyway. And then plant child porn on her boyfriend.

That could work.

She is only seemingly dating, that still sounds like there's a chance she isn't dating him

That's a real shame about the girl

And my biggest gripe is the lack of testing, all seems a bit rushed from beta to live for my liking.