We are talking about the same thing. My wife wasn't into it and the other girl knew it so she just focused on me which of course made things worse. Eventually we got through it and that was that. She mentioned that she didn't really want me to sleep with her girls anymore, and to just leave them to her. No biggie, it just put a damper on the weekend.
It sounds like I got off easy compared to you though.
it's not so much she can do what she wants and I can't. It just usually works best when we are apart. So her girls stay on her side of the fence and I graze in other fields as it were.
so correct. the world is the same as it has been for eons. people say: "man, the world has gotten so fucked up" but i know that it hasn't... if anything it's become slightly better. but you have to measure these things on a realistic timetable. we expect armageddon every generation. c'mon people. change takes time and in the case of humanity - it may take millions of years. shit, evolution took a while so why do we expect to create a perfect civilization in a few hundred. the beauty does outweigh the horror. and the truth of it is: subjective perception. i have decided that there is more beauty than tragedy and that is my reality. we have collectively decided our entire human reality and geographic differences are pronounced which demonstrate that we are the masters of our own destinys... choose a positive reality and make it real for you and everyone around you.
geesh. i haven't been on this site for about a month. i guess that had been building up. i hope everything's working out well for you.
People have been and shall always will be fucked in the head... only our environment is wearing thin... and we are finding other ways/things to destroy leaving nothing sacred.... even our children.
It sounds like I got off easy compared to you though.