Oh goodness...”small talk”. I abhor it 🤢. Let’s not talk about the weather, let’s talk about your hopes and dreams. When I ask “How are you?” I really want to know how that person is. I don’t know about France, but in America people use it as a greeting people use while passing each other.
@cpmower831 same in france, and I think it’s stupid cause everyone ask this and doesn’t expect any other answer than « fine and you » 🙄 I don’t get the point
I agree 😢. If I ask, I really REALLY want to know, because as an empath and the dictionary definition of an extreme introvert (ISFJ here) , I want to FEEL what you’re feeling and I ask because I actually care about you, you know? I can’t tell you how many times I’ve asked out of the blue and the person as been going through stuff they needed to get off their chests.
