so im guessing that your surgery is tommorrow? what kind of surgery is it? i will keep ya in my thoughts and prayers until i hear from ya post surgery! i wouldnt worry too much, you are gonna be fine!

Deep breath. You'll be fine, sweetie. And so will your dad. You are probably just feeling (understandably) vulnerable right now. YOU are the caretaker... it is hard to be taken care of and to feel confident that he can take care of both of you (and your critters) for a day or so. But he can. You'll all be just fine!

Have your Lilli doggy smooch you for me!

And... hey... Happy AA Birthday when you wake up in the morning!

I thought the same way about my cancer surgery, then I got there and they stuck 9 syringes full of glowing green radioactive shit into my back, which made me think more But through it all I did fine, just as you will hun. Try to take it all in stride and know that you are going to be fine, and you have lots of people who are thinking of you

calm yourself, you're going to be fine. glad to hear your Dad is doing better. i've been through some stuff with both my parents, i know how that feels. take care.