Beautiful Schoolgirl,
Things will get better. I know people always say that, but having recently gone through a divorce myself, I really mean it. Yes, the waiting sucks but it does get better. Hang in there
Hun, when things seem to be at their worst, it can only get better. I hope you find someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. I wish you the best.
That just made me want to come give you a giant hug, hold you close and let you know that everything is gonna be okay.
From what you've told me and the times we've talked, I know you are strong and can overcome whatever you face. You've overcome a lot already ... pregnancy, medical issues , mental and physical abuse, inner issues dealing with getting away from the situation, work, personal issues ... hon ... there is so much that you've overcome.
I don't know what issues you are dealing with ... and that is fine with me ... I prolly don't need to know. So who knows if what I am saying is just pissing you off 'cause I just don't understand the levity of everything or what.
All I want you to know is that there are people that really care about you out here and I personally am always here if you need to talk things out hon. Always. Anything. I'm here.
*hugs and kisses* I do hope things clear up for you soon hon. Me no likey seeing you unhappy.
*hugs*sorry the last few days have been so crappy, but things will get better, i'm sure i think you've got my digits now, so if you ever want someone to talk to just give me a ring anytime, i can be a pretty good listener when i want to be
It was a pleasure to meet you, sweet thang. And just so you know, I love being able to offer advice to people going through situations similar to my own life. So hearing about them isn't a problem.
I'm also sorry you had to slap my hand away from your knee. I swear I'm just a harmless flirt!
Ugh, sorry to hear that things haven't been going so well. Just remember, all things are temporary. Everything passes, that's how I get through rougher times.
It's too bad we couldn't hang out at all last weekend. Do you have plans to come back to the city in the near future?
*shrugs* You're welcome? I mean ... I'm not saying these things to get on your good side or anything ... lol ... so I don't think there is a need for thanks. (Just another part of my weirdness).
You're a friend ... friends look out for each other and care about each other ... I'm only doing my job.
However ... you may step up and give me a hug or more whenever you like cutie.
As far as matters of the heart... well if anyone doesn't love you as much as you love them, maybe you should re-examine your feelings for them. They may have too many chromosomes...
Don't know what you have on your plate that's bringin you down, but from the (admittedly) little I know of you, you seem to be a very capable woman who's head is on straight. It sucks when you're in the trenches, but you've probably dealt with worse. I'm sure things will turn out for the best...
I got lucky tonight; some dumbass threw their Killing Is My Business shirt on stage, and being in the front row, I asked the securtiy people if I could have it. Saved myself about $30.
hmm, oddly enough that actually cleared up a few things going on in my head.
I often wish life was normal, but I know I'd just get bored with it. I know what you mean though, I would love to have a week of just normal everyday-person sort of life.
Odd. I feel like I could have just written your journal entry myself.
In my 'Makes me happy' section I have 'Life.' I really do love life and all the things that come along with it. The good, the bad, and everything in between. It truly makes life worth living. Remember, without the rough patches how would you know to appreciate the good times.
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I have the same attitude about life. I am superwoman, I can do it, I can do anything!!! It's really hard to admit when you feel overwhelmed, and even harder to ask for help. I always feel like I've given up on myself when I ask for help, or given in. But there have been times when I have admitted defeat, and in the end it was all okay. Just know there are others like us out there.
Hope your feeling more upbeat soon. Whatever is happening will pass, as do most bad things. Just remember, you are loved and supported!
I am sorry to hear that you are feeling so despondent, and I am afraid that I don't know you and so don't know what would help cheer you up. I, myself, greatly enjoy writing drivel as a distraction, and I also am fond of old
travel posters.
Everything always seems quietly and contentedly happy in them.
Well that all depends on you definition of normal, Some people prefer a constant, and other prefer lots of change in life. As far as getting ahead, well thats a little tricky, but im willing to say no, most ppl will not get ahead. The only way to get to know if someone is real, its to get to know them, period. Well trust is a little complicated, but that also goes along with getting to know someone.
Sorry about the devorce, i cant say much about that, because i have never been in that situation. Work is what you make of it, i like to have fun at whever job i do, if you stop enjoying your job, you dont belong there. and i disagree with the love having you walk on eggshells. because you can love someone or somthing unconditionally no matter what happens. Sometimes it hurts like hell, but that cant really be controlled.
-in a bleak attempt to warm your heart a little *hugs*
-Jon
Edited because i cant spell for beans*
Things will get better. I know people always say that, but having recently gone through a divorce myself, I really mean it. Yes, the waiting sucks but it does get better. Hang in there