h34rt4gr4m:
my mom can be like that too. i mean, i dont have to take care of her, but it seems like members of the family, esp parents seem to have the ability to make you stressed beyong belief.

but anyway, joint custody sounds good!! tongue

thanks for welcoming me back! it's GOOD to be back!! biggrin
trixel:
My mom and I are the same way. *hug*
rumrunner:
don't carry the weight of others.To care for the one's we love is to be human but to slice your soul for other's whom ever they be is to lose too much of one's self.
It is a rare thing for a person to give so much LOVE but be sure to save some for yourself.
_argos_:
Ha....nice saying. My mom is not that bad..... but there was a point when all she would do was complain complain complain about everything and everyone..... till I would just pull out my hair, and she used to tell me how to do everything in my life - like I was fucking stupid. And this was only about 5 years ago..... so I was a big boi by then.

I hope that things get better for you - you don't deserve that shit. Take it easy and maybe start to set some boundaries.... just a couple of cents for ya.
the_gargirl:
My mom is lonely, jobless and depressed now. She was laid off and now trading stocks. She paid lots of $ for Lipo. and gain the weight back.She's always making hints about her children should help her out. She's always had very good income for herself but, kept it all to herself...I moved out when I was 17. We didn't get along at all. We talk now but, I could never live w/ her again. I would go MAD!
bridgetwnpeddler:
Yeah I don't think I could live with my Dad or spend that much time with him. Someday I am sure I will have to take care of him but I will wait for someday.

For now we have a rare visits and they go well enough. Best to leave well enough alone for now.

I hope things get better.

Love your little saying.