Oh yeah. I know what you mean. My mom learned the guilt game from my grandma who is very subtle. I don't even think she knows that she's doing it but she makes my mom and uncle feel guilty as hell about stupid crap. Jewish guilt is the worst, I know...
My method for dealing with guilt is basically to quickly run away before it works and my mom knows how much I hate guilt and that I usually deliberately disobey her if she uses the jew guilt so she's gotten better at not doing it but sometimes like my grandma she's really subtle and then I'm like putty in her hands...Damn moms and their crafty games...
Good luck beautiful. Don't let THEM win!
Always fucking nagging the small stuff!!!!
Other than that........What have you been up to?