Know how you feel, girl. No real way to have it be an easy road, that's for. Best way that I've found was to just keep yourself distracted until the pain dulls down a bit. Go out with friends as much as possible (tho this can be hard if you are poor like me haha), find good books, explore new music. Pretty much do what ever you can not to have down time to dwell. Given enough time, the loneliness starts to dull down a bit.
If you need to get out and grab a drink, drop me a line.
i havent got any of my own yet . i just cant decide what i want to get. my sis is offering to pay for me to get 1. so hopefully i'll decide soon. so how about you, you got tattoos?