Your always telling me I "worry" too much about stuff, well, I am telling you the same thing...your photography is amazing, and it just comes so naturally for you, you need to relaize that, you are an AMAZING photographer!
Here's a thought - why don't you try a listing on craigslist.com offering your services for boudoir portraits. So many of the boudoir services are run by men - some women might actually prefer having a portrait taken by a woman. You obviously have the talent for it. And, you can market through SG as well. Further you can market both at the traditional level and offer "edgier" shots as well. I would think that you could also market your skills for some of the amateur postings on SG, too!
....and who is that?