just be as supportive as you can. be there when she needs you. even if she doesn't want the help she may need the help.just make yourself available when you can, and let her know how she feels.
no i don't ....
but doing what your doing to help her out. is a very noble sweet thing.
and maybe if you want to help her...
it might help to do some research on breast cancer.
i know that may sound kinda weird , but when i was sick thats what my mom did. cause those doctors don't really explain as much as they should... my mom put my mind at ease about a lot of things by what she knew. it made all the crazy doctor lingo seem more real,and i didn't freak out as much.
All you can do is be there for her. She'll probably be fine. There have been so many advances in breast cancer treatment in the last 10 years, its amazing.
As for kitties, yep, I can even feed them drunk and then hungover.. was pretty amazing that I managed that last night and this morning.
Ideal design theme? I'd haveta think about it when my head wasn't pounding (hey, at least I won a bunch of games of pool.. )
yeah i understand, but i think so far you have done everything the right way.i think there may not be more than you can do but be a friend. and thats what she needs right now.
yes, people survive cancer all the time. a lot of women in my circle have had breast cancer, and men other cancers, and they are still here, enjoying life. this is not meant for self promotion in any way, but my company helped put out a book about alternative and complementary therapies for breast cancer...it talks about herbs and yoga and accupuncture, things to help heal you while undergoing Western therapies. some people don't like reading much, but if hearing about other therapies is something she would like, there is a wonderful book out there.
aww, well i'll be pulling for her...she's lucky to have someone who cares for her as much as you do.
'm sorry it's taken me soooo long to reply...what with the move and all...thanks for your sweets words...maybe that "IT", you say i have, will come in handy when i start dating....someday....
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