rephrased

No, you're not.

Hey, I got your txt.msg but I was driving at the time, so I didn't think it would be a good idea to reply right then. ANYWAY, I have a few questions. How long has this S.O known this opposite sex friend? It's a tricky situation and I am sure you are feeling a bit apprehensive. You could handle it two ways which might have different results. If you make a big deal about it she could think that you are controlling, jealous and don't trust her. Not good things in a relatively new relationship. But then again she just may be testing you...to see if she does get a reaction out of you...you know... to see how much you care and if you DO get jealous. *shrugs shoulders* If it were me I'd ask general questions about the guy (if she hasn't already opened up about her good pal) You could jokingly say something like " Good thing you're such good friends with him...or I'd be one jealous man!".... or even.... "I'm gonna miss you when you're away! That's one lucky friend you've got there!" Letting her know that you're not jealous of him specifically, but of the time she's spending away from you! If it were me...I'd keep cool...even if it was KILLING me!
Let me know if this helps!
*kisses*
Gray