redhornets

Man, my last grandmother died. She was found in her house, on the bed, obviously had been feeling sick. She did OK, lived to 84 and by herself the last couple of years. They didn't let my step mom or other relatives go in to look until they took her away...I know a lot more about that now...we go on those calls all the time where older folks have just gone naturally, and maybe been a couple of days before anyone checked on them, it can look kind of rough. We usually try to suggest that family members just remember them how they were the last time they say them, and not insist on going into the bedroom or whereever to take a look.....