But it's also not easy when you are not one of those guys you are telling your opinions ;-)

I also agree. The majority of men who do complain about this are the men who you have described. The nasties.

I normally don't read a lot of blogs but this one caught my attention and u speak the truth! Love the way u put it. Whatever u want in a mate is who u have to be 

I can't argue with a word you've said, though I seldom use cologne - I'd rather be content with being CLEAN.

That was just a whole lot of truth I just read there.  On the flip side though, as a guy who generally follows these ideas already, its still not always easy to find quality women.

I never understood why some people almost seem proud of looking like slobs in public.

all true.