Hmmm... sorry baby... that is estrogen for you in a nutshell...
Women... Psha!!

Wondered how it was going with her. It's a turbulent ride, romancing exes.

i guess it did get screwed up. well, it comes down to two things:
1) let her know you're giving her time to figure things out
2) tell her what you want, and that she has to say now what she wants, or it's just not going to work.

that's alwys a shitty situation, i hope things work out. one way or another.