I hope everything works out. It looks like you have some really fine people to lean on.
Thanks for your letter, you're very kind. It's heartening. Drunk can spill more than drinks. I've messaged Faelynia a few times, and she's been full of great advice and support.
Sounds like a tough time for everyone. Calm seas will follow.
Friends are perfect for that kind of thing. Even when you're not used to needing someone to help... Or to be a "burden"... friends are there to celebrate the good times and help you threw the bad times... If you need to talk to some one, (I know we don't really know eachother), but you can talk to me...
I hope the best for you and that you can overcome this event...