I think maybe one more email to investigate her and her intentions a little more. Also to put you position fourth.
You are not a child and rules of "conduct" aren't needed for a visitation with Morgan.
I don't think you would blurt out things about you life to her anyway. I could see you asking her how she is. I honestly cannot see you talking about your self to her.
if i was you i would do the dance of joy that i am not living with such a meany anymore and being mature in the face of such immaturity.
custody disputes are not good. from what you say here you have made decisions and given her opportunities with the best interest of the dog in mind. good for you!!
i held back on any commentary about "her" because it would be unseemly to call a complete stranger a fucking bitch.
i try to avoid advice but i would suggest that i, personally, would prefer to develop a relationship with a new cat than subject myself to "her". plus morgan would have someone with him all day to help keep him sane.
I think if Morgan saw her, well he definitely would remember her, and he would be very happy, but when she would leave again, he would go through separation all over again. Dogs don't understand time the same way as I am sure you've noticed. Morgan would see her, and forget he hadn't seen her all those months, then all of a sudden she'd be gone again. Maybe it is better for Morgan to just be happy with you.
About your comment in my journal--don't fret, the paintings weren't harmed. They both are fine now. Also, this "if he puked on my" thing, well, he wouldn't. It is as simple as that. He chose two paintings which are well known, by artists who have made some sort of mark in the art scene, and paintings which art farts will drool over and go on about how "oh mondrian was so......" and think they are brilliant for complimenting him, when really Mobdrian was not so.... but he just got famous by random occurunces, and through friends and relations, not by talent. Art he felt was being put on a pedastal with no guts behind it...
"I think if Morgan saw her, well he definitely would remember her, and he would be very happy, but when she would leave again, he would go through separation all over again. Dogs don't understand time the same way as I am sure you've noticed. Morgan would see her, and forget he hadn't seen her all those months, then all of a sudden she'd be gone again. Maybe it is better for Morgan to just be happy with you."
Absolutely. and then she will vibe him out with her juvenile hatred and piss tantrums. fuck her.
you and your sweet doggie just need to cuddle as much as you can and enjoy the time that you have left together.
i really wish i could come up and visit.
and thank you for the e-mail it mad me smile.
you are awesome. i would love nothing more than to have a day out with you and mr. morgan just walking about, having coffee somewhere, and you showing me around. i picture that in soft light, with tree blossoms falling gently in the breeze, and the air smelling of grass and summer freshness.
Summer is too hot! Grr..i guess Im alone in wanting cool summers? Also I think about my pets like that as well. I generally consider how short their lives are and how we often just get new ones right after. I dont want to replace them, but I do love animals..
Ah dude, I feel for you and I'm really glad you're out of that relationship. You are certainly being more grown up than she is. As a child of divorce at 7 I can feel for Morgan. I think that because you are the main caregiver and have been so there for him, he really cares about your well being and to see you be treated like shit by your ex would definitely depress Morgan. Sure, he would like to see the cats again and everything but your ex is going to be giving crappy vibes when they're hanging out together and Morgan is really going to miss you. I wouldn't give her Morgan visitation until she can be positive and sincere about wanting to see him. Even if that doesn't happen during Morgan's lifetime. *hugs* to both of you.
You are not a child and rules of "conduct" aren't needed for a visitation with Morgan.
I don't think you would blurt out things about you life to her anyway. I could see you asking her how she is. I honestly cannot see you talking about your self to her.
I wish I had a better answer for you.