phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333
sorcerer333:
“The Chaotic Good”? If that’s a “Dungeons and Dragons” alignment reference - which makes total sense - I may lose my shit (in a really good way). If not, it still suits your avatar. 😁
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333  Chaotic good represents a willingness to challenge authority and break rules to achieve positive change. Chaotic good characters (e.g., Robin Hood) are rebels with both a conscience and a cause. Lawful neutral defines any character or approach that follows a strict code to maintain stability and order.
phelonyjames:
I am the misfit other misfits feel safe enough with to be honest and confront their own shadows as i walk my own path through the shadows i light the way
sorcerer333:
Yeah, that checks out. 🖤
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333 i am what is called a wounded healer- its my purpose and it fits my numerology- I have the master number 33 its literally my job to help people
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333 like my spirits purpose- the real reason im here right now on this plane of existence lol
richsquared:
Awesome 😃
sorcerer333:
I’m glad to see that you have embraced that path with what I can ken (from this distance, any ways) is your whole being. Though I have taught in the Ottawa Pagan Schola, astrology and numerology were never my thing (there were other students and teachers that were totally into that), though I certainly respect those who choose to apply such guides to their daily lives.
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333 i dont ascribe to one form of connection in spiritual practice- i let the universe speak to me however it needs to and i just try to pay attention = my gut if you will is now a super power- and when i stay aligned in love- everything else is seen with truth
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333 its also why i must be very protective of myself because those that are very low frequency attract to me like a moth to a flame- and they want what i have- and those people can be dangerous-
sorcerer333:
Beautiful. This has made my morning. Thank you for that. I love talking about this stuff.
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333 anytime man you wanna hop on a live and talk about metaphysical random shit i am down lol ya know between me making stuff and working like a nut
phelonyjames:
i am literally waiting to see if my 1 pm is gonna show up as we speak @sorcerer333
sorcerer333:
Yup, barriers and boundaries are always important, as you well know. Have you ever had trouble healing while also protecting yourself?
sorcerer333:
I love these talks. If you ever just want to shoot the shit, feel free to message me.
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333 um so for me- becoming a professional and entering the world of being a helper- therapist is how I actually learned to have boundaries I needed to be taught- and then in my professional world they were easier to establish and understand- which allowed me to be better and continue to be better at it in my personal life- its interesting because my patients actually act as a motivator- if i don't set healthy boundaries and limits in my personal life- i can do harm to them because i am not taking care of myself nor am i setting a good example- so today for me- my boundaries arent just about me they are for the good of everyone
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333 for instance- when I say yes to you and people please- i am creating not only my discomfort- I am literally stifling myself- and then resent you for it- lol I highly recommend reading Codependent no more by Melody Beattie
sorcerer333:
Thank you for providing that experience and thus your knowledge and wisdom on the matter. 🙂🖤
phelonyjames:
@sorcerer333 just what im here to do man- if a seed i spread helps somebody great
sorcerer333:
I feel ya. Feels damned good when that happens.
tallco:
Fantastic avatar!! 🖤🖤 The wounded healer explanation is exactly why a recovering alcoholic can help one who is still struggling.
phelonyjames:
@tallco  there was a man that fell down into a hole.  A priest walked past, he saw the man in suffering- he stopped and he prayed with him.  An engineer came by and tried to give advice on how to look at the whole and gave instructions of how he would do it.  Then I came, and i jumped into the hole- and i said its ok, ive been here before and i know the way out- we can figure it out together if you trust me, take all the time you need