Is it possible to visit NYC more? Stay for extended periods of time and wait out the extra year? Making relationships work is about compromise at times. Glenn has been a very positive influence on you and I'd hate to see you two split over something as meaningless as this. Give it all you got, kiddo.
I've been similarly torn recently... I just finally decided to move out of where I was living about 2 weeks ago... as much as I love Scott, he's not my husband OR my boyfriend even, but it hurts a lot. I knew having my own space and time to do what I wanted was best though, in my heart... And if Glenn loves you, he will wait for you. And you will wait for him. Not to say you can't go on with your life, many things can happen inbetween, but it sounds to me like you already kinda made up your mind. Don't let this unhappiness hold you back... I also just left my job yesterday. As comfortable and easy as I had it, it finally had to be done. I'm scared, and unhappy in a lot of ways, but I feel like I'm finally moving forward. Maybe you will too soon. ♥
