Chatting away to a friend in work today. There I was talking to him about the fact that his 1st wedding anniversary is next week, his first kid is due in 2 months, he's been paying a mortgage for 3 years now and he's happy as Larry(Gotta meet this Larry guy.) All this and he's just turned 25.
So I started thinking "My God, this guy is what I have to be in 2 years. Ok ok. First! let's get this mortgage thing sorted... da da da... no, costs too much I'll need someone else. Right, gotta get me a girlfriend... da da da... I think I'd have better luck with the mortgage. Think think think think.... panic panic panic!" Course that was all foolish thinking cause all those things come when they come. I have plans that I really have to start moving but I'm not going to rush them, I'm going to enjoy getting there
Also the real world, not that scary once you get used to it.... or so I'm told
so, damn. good luck. *hugs*