From my brief experience in long distance relationships (and starting them) I've found they are extremely difficult. To be forced into one with a girl you've been dating is one thing, but I won't ever start one intentionally again. I've found it is easier/better to cultivate the friendship and go from there if one ever ends up in the same city/area as the other.
You know how I feel about this, already. I like her a lot and think she's worth the effort... even though she walks in on little girls in public restrooms.
As far as long distance relationships go, they're very effective for giving you the illusion of dating someone without any of the realities of it. If you really love the person though, long distance will rip your heart out through your ass.
Didn't you say you didn't like that picture you now have in your profile? We should've all taken pictures of us stuffing our fucking faces with cheese fries.
I am going to have to whole-heartedly second Amy, up there. Yes, they're GRAND for fun times. But when it's more than that, it hurts. She is wise in the ways of the world, love.
you know I always tell you the truth about things so I'll give you my two cents. Long Distances relationships are very hard and honestly if your not moving there or she's not moving here are pointless. Dan lives only and hour and fifteen minutes away from me and every five days I go without seeing him my heart aches. If I just met somebody in a different state I would not pursue anything. We have exceptions like Sam and Iron but even there Ironbhr was willing to pick up and move. I also think if there's not a good foundation of trust the relationship is doomed, absence makes the heart grow fonder until you find someone else to fuck or the other party does. Also what is a long distance relationship really, it's just like being friends. Part of having an intimate relationship with someone is being with them in the flesh. I would say just be friends and if at some point one or both parties is going to move to the other then pursue a relationship
dude. long distance sucks balls. I dated a loverly lady for 2 1/2 years. She moved away. Despite the fact that I had no job or love opportunities, I didn't follow her. I dated her for 2 1/2 more years. it sucked balls. I finally broke up with her because? I wouldn't move. duh.
If it is circumstances that keep you apart, then keep it up. if she has the opportunity to move and won't, then start shopping, brother.
-T