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For some reason I was driving and began to think of what my ideal man would be if I could imagine him. This, of course, is just an imaginary man and we all know that it's all about the mojo so even if he had these qualities he could be a complete dud.

Anyway... here he is:

He's European, biracial, well traveled, highly educated, is a physician or scientist of some sort (I would be endlessly fascinated hearing about his work), speaks at least five languages, has a passion for music, loves children, has a ridiculous vocabulary and knows waaaaaay too much about mindless trivia, smiles with his eyes, is at least 2 inches taller than me, loves to read, loves his mother, is intense about his political and world views without being monomaniacal and unable to see both sides, and understands the pain of loss.

He also: looks at me and speaks to me in a way that is reserved only for me; understands my weaknesses yet can still see my positive qualities; loves my children (this should be closer to the top but I'm not editing); wants to make babies with me; respects my cultural views and my role as a woman;

There is so much more but I've got to run. Please excuse the fact that I used commas in the first part... and excuse again my misuse of the ellipsis.


I can't believe I'm going to log off and not change that.

It's kind of liberating.





ps. We saw a Mandrill touching himself at the zoo Thursday. His icky pink thing came out and everything.