been thinking a little bit over the last few hours. i'm actually taking steps to become comfortable with my size. i'm not a small guy, but i'm not as big as some of the folks that i've seen that weigh the same as me. i'm only in 2xl shirts and 42 waist pants, so i'm ok with that, to a point. i'm trying to get added to groups on here that are tuned to bigger guys so i can see what others do to keep up confidence. i had asked a woman i worked with, how the large hispanic & black guys get so many girls....her answer to me was "confidence". i know that i could lose some weight and still be as big as i am (i've done it before). eh, just rambling now.
rainbowfour:
Dude I am the opposite to you, I am a small, mini umpalumpa of a dude! I try to build myself up, add weight and muscle in the gym, I dunno how familiar you are with English sports. But I have always played rugby, and man a few extra stone would make me awesome as a pose to average! We have to except what and who we are!! Me I'm mini, you, your maxi, but were still alive, funny, capable of reproducing, having a laugh, an opinion, shit man we ain't no different form George or brad, it's others fault they can't see it! My name is Bram would be cool to make your acquaintance?? Well done on ur decision!!