thank you...i like the cage photos a lot too...i have more of them that i havn't uploaded yet b/c i am lazy. they are at photos.yahoo.com/jov013 in (i think the 2nd) fallenanglesstudios gallery. and i really like the locke quote you provided....the whole "girl in cage" thing wasn't done just b/c hot nekkid girl in cage is a fun/sassy/artsy idea....there was definatly a bit more to it and the locke that you supplied really embodies the "spirit" of that something more quite well...
oh boy, i think that boy is fancy! i met him this weekend but he's probably unavailable if my unavailable radar is still working properly.
the expectations thing.... i broke up with my ex of 3 years last year... mostly because i was staying with him because it was the safe thing to do, so i wouldn't be alone. it was the right thing to do, but being single sometimes sucks, so you better be right!
[Edited on May 18, 2003]