It's perversely amusing that when you speak from the heart, some people see it as weakness because they think you couldn't hide your pain. The joke is on them because just as often it means that one isn't afraid to be seen as human and having feelings and fears. I have to assume that most of the very silly people you are describing have not spoken to you at any length, otherwise they would not waste their time trying to play these infantile competitive games. You're so smart, strong and resourceful that they can only disappoint and irritate you. Do they know that you're skilled at dealing with enraged people and don't take stupid crap personally? Perhaps they can eventually find someone else whom they can really hurt badly. What a fine and noble goal that is!
It's completely up to you whether you stop writing very personal stuff here altogether, or just completely ignore nonsense and delete inappropriate comments when you see them. I would never recommend engaging in a discussion that should not even be taking place, and explaining that very simply is all that's required. I have to smile at how often people make themselves look ridiculous when they try to dominate and abuse others.
I really don't know why anyone would try to cause issues, when anyone else's relationship is not their business. But I suppose people just get bored with their own lives.
Dunno what happened to bring this all about...you are welcome to tell me if you'd like, I'll tell the same to your honey on my next stop...if not, then that's cool too. I'm sorry to hear that this crappola continues...and that there are people here who have nothing better to do than to try to cause problems between the two of you. Very sad indeed to think that their lives are so meaningless, isn't it?
You have grown so much over the course of the last year here love...it does my heart good to read how strong you've become and so secure in knowing what an awesome, amazing person that you are. We've known that for a mighty long time...so I'm grateful that you've finally come to know it as well!!
You are the most amazing woman I know! I am so glad you are in my life for REAL! Let's start formulating our evil master plan! Time for us to take our lives back! Love ya honey!
I'm always here for ya!!! We are all grown people here, so we should act that way!!! I can't appologize for the way other people act, but I can tell you I am your friend!
What an amazing blog. You, more than anyone I've come across on SG has put your feelings out there for all to see. As someone who is celebrating his first full year on SG, I can attest to how much this site has meant to me, and how much my life would be worse without the wonderful friends I've made here.
You wear your heart on your sleeve. Sometimes that has caused you difficulty. So be it. Nobody can please everybody. I believe those that try to wind up with nothing. You have so many people who care about you. I am pleased to be one of those people. I think you're amazing (I hate using that word more than once in a post, but I'm making an exception because the word fits you so well). I'm so happy that we're friends.
Sorry about your accident. I hope it's a very minor setback and you're back where you were before the fall in no time. Let me know if, and when you want to schedule our next call. My afternoon and evening schedule is pretty flexible except for a few hours Tuesday evening and all of Wednesday. Any other late afternoon or evening would probably be fne. Let me know.
Giggle? Is that what you women are calling it these day ? I guess panties could be a toy if used right . Camera and pretty phones are nice toys definately.
My day was fairly good until I started to read the Blogs that I get
from friends list.
I'm extra happy that you didn't undo your surgery. I'm glad that
whatever Group/ Threads that these asshats are messing up in;
that I'm not there.
Not too much else to say, saved Good For You and Al.
xoxo
Gwynnie