I meant to say something, I really did. But I was apathetic and lazy.

Well that is good. I couldnt imagine myself at a place where an open relationship like that would be a good idea.

My wife and I are in an open relationship, every time she wants something I open my wallet........Seriously, if your hubby doesn't feel right, he may have second thoughts, but i think most guys are honest when it comes to something that important, so keep communicating! Peace Bill