I have yet to ever catch sight of myself (or anyone I know) on the hookup page, despite a rather large amount of time dedicated to just that. However, this makes me feel famous, if you leave out that part where nobody knows who the hell I am.
I'm a big fan of 7 card No Peek recently. I'd explain the rules, but that would be way more typing than I feel like doing.
I can normally will myself out of finding people attractive when I really want to. I just somehow put them on the same plane as family members, so that the thought of doing anything with them disturbs me and I can just be friends with them.