after i get my degree, i plan to teach and write. the standard academic route
when my wife & i got married, we actually did the court house route (we had to get married - to get univeristy housing actually; we were engaged already, we just bumped it up a year). a year later we DID have a receptiopn, and it was drama ... i sort of wish we had just eloped and been done with it. (the party was fun ... i dunno. now that it's DONE, i'm glad we did it, but the planning was such a bitch).
sounds like life is busy - but i hope it's good too?