hey, sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend..obv i don't know you guys, but it's never nice to read about someone going thru that kinda thing.
it is hard to let go of the one you love...and as far as i can figure...once you love someone? that love never goes away, it may change...but it never dies.
keep your head up and things will get better..easy for me to say i know, but i have been where you are not so long ago. my situation was a bit different. but i still had to say goodbye to someone very special to me, and that hurts.
The essence of love is doing what's right even when it makes you look like the bad guy. When someone needs to find their way, providing a crutch that prevents them from finding it isn't a kindness. Punishing yourself for taking away that crutch isn't right.
What's particularly hard in situations like this is that you may not really feel confident that you've made the right choice. You have to let yourself be okay with thatyou're human, and you won't always make the right choice, but it sounds like you made the choice you made for the right reason.
Now's the time to stick with it and not undermine yourself with second-guessing. A year from now, ask yourself again if it was the right decisionit'll be clearer then. Right now, try not to worry about it.
The only thing your guaranteed to have from a college education is a lifetime of debt. That's why I'm so glad I joined the military. Hope you can find love again soon.
I'm familiar with your pain. I recently had to break up with my girlfriend and she has beaten herself up over, but I guess it wasn't clear at the start that I wasn't going to leave my touring job for her and no jobs I wanted were coming up in her area of the country. I love her, but we weren't at a point where things were going to work.
I know paying for school is tough, but you can usually put student loans on deferment if you go back to school, which might help you out? Going back is a tough thing to do and I hope it works out for you.
Sounds like you were in a rough situation and made the right decision for yourself. It's very kind-hearted of you to take so much of someone else's feelings into consideration, even when they have hurt you. You definately deserve to find happiness, and with someone that truly does deserves how wonderful you are!
hiya hun , HUGGLES.,
Try not to stress to much , I know that is easier said than done.Hopefully things will work out for you soon.
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sounds like you did what was right for the both of you. its hard because you care hun. time will mend the scars. you'll be fine and love will come-a-knockin', when you ain't lookin'
It's nice to see someone your age with both principals and compassion. I think you've got a good head on your shoulders... the trouble with being intellegent is that people can hurt you more... don't regret having to pay the cost.
sounds like a complicated situation, it was better to just get it over with, no point in drawing out a relationship that is making you feel miserable its just more stress you have to deal with, and you shouldn't have to feel like the burden is on you either...everyone makes there own choices regardless if there drunk or not its just a lame excuse.
lol, your going to make an awesome crazy sexy wife one day
aww you are a sweet girl, your ex will be fine eventually.
i've had a few awful breakups everything from being lied to, & cheated on to having a girl go total psycho and trash my apt and assault me & then calling the cops on ME; so when things just don't work out, it sucks but life goes on.
one day you will make some lucky guy an awesome wife
HUGS!
it is hard to let go of the one you love...and as far as i can figure...once you love someone? that love never goes away, it may change...but it never dies.
keep your head up and things will get better..easy for me to say i know, but i have been where you are not so long ago. my situation was a bit different. but i still had to say goodbye to someone very special to me, and that hurts.