you were also right on the money when you said that he has no right to criticise because he doesn't know why i like the movie- he was basing his judgement on his set of criteria, when in fact i liked it partly because i could really relate to it on a personal level, not necessarily for it's script, cinematography or other standard modes of evaluation.
plus, faith is right. you do seem intelligent. and quite emotionally mature .
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