Well, and I am speaking from expierence, these are pretty big warning signs. My last bf was kind of the same. I always changed my life to fit his. He never changed anything for me. Eventually I realized we were not a "couple". I was just part of his life.
I would try talking to him first. Be very up front and honest about everything that bothers you. Insist that he change parts of his life to blend with yours. Tell him what is wrong sexually ( he may be under the impression everything is great).
I think we often stay with someone just because it is easier than leaving.
Everyone has an opinion.. but I agree with Amy... From a male point of view, I would appreciate my g/f or wife telling me the problems both in and out of bed, and working at fixing them..
If he gets defensive or doesn't care? Then it maybe time to find another..
you better talk to your bf, communication should always be VERY important in a relationship. and it sounds to me its very one sided and you're getting bored of him, not a good sign. might be telling you its time to move on, unless you guys can work on that. best of luck with that though!
I would try talking to him first. Be very up front and honest about everything that bothers you. Insist that he change parts of his life to blend with yours. Tell him what is wrong sexually ( he may be under the impression everything is great).
I think we often stay with someone just because it is easier than leaving.
I send a hug.