mipha

Ever made a decision you weren't so sure about? We all have.

But, remember, every single path we decide to take is just a tiny step in where we'll end up.

Gotten yourself into an abusive relationship? You won't see it now, but in the future you'll look back and see how the experience has made you stronger. It takes a few goes for some people, but it will happen.

Stolen something, and felt bad about it? That's an awesome sign! Now, I don't condone stealing AT ALL, but guilt is a sign of caring. For most people it means you won't do it again. Right?

You've decided to get absolutely starkers on the Internet and your blood "family" has decided that you're no good, or disowned you? One thing I've learned is - fuck 'em. If they abandon you, knowing you're doing something you love, they're seriously not worth it. If they judge your entire character just because of a 10% aspect of your life, they're not family. So many girls on this site have amazing jobs - tattooists, lawyers, attornies, accountants, business owners - and it sickens me to see those, who are suppose to love us unconditionally, "disowning" their own flesh and blood because of a side hobby.

You know what I learned, with the help of my friends? Independence. Look after yourself and make yourself happy. I'm not saying be utterly selfish but, for your own sanity you sometimes have to be a little. Get rid of the bad vibes and keep the good ones around. There's people who say that you get nothing out of helping others, but they're so very very wrong. You get satisfaction and happiness.

Be who you are and never let someone drag you down - and be nice! Don't drag other people down either. If someone doesn't like you for you; they're not worth it.. If you don't like someone for being themselves, don't go trying to change them. Either embrace it, or move on. You don't need to cater to anyone and they don't need to cater to you. Rule your life your way x