I think anyone who is in a relationship they actually give a damn about is in "lala land." That's why they have the saying "love is blind." It really is!

That is a good way to think about that thank you sweetie

happy new years east coasters

Hmmm I like that idea... No Pants Panty Dance!

Sounds like you're on the right track. You can't fix someone else's self esteem issues... just gets messy and awful.
I wish you countless happiness in the new year...

kt_belle thank you! You are right, one cannot fix someone elses problems. Time to just keep my head high and life my life for me