why must women be so vague. in the words of the great charlie brown, ARRRGH!!! this relastionship im in right now is so pathetic. on off on off on off. lame. everything ends up being my fault because she can manpulate words around and i just dont even care enough to fight.
okay before i go on heres the skinny. 3.5 years ago i was going to break with this girl ON THE EXACT same day i was going to call her she called me and told me she was pregnant. suffice to say pulling out is not a substitute for abstanence. so i decided i wasnt going to be like 95% other males and just leave. i mean, my pops escaped from me so i thought i would overcome the legacy. fastforward to the present. my nerves are shot. the only thing keeping me from leaving is my daughter. really the only thing good i got out of the relationship. this girl has pushed me to the limit. if my anger were measured in record sells i would be double platnium. she is so dependant on everything...every little decision. its so lame. the funny thing is when i make the shots, i end up shooting blanks. i never do anything right but she wont tell me how she wants it done. she just gets pissed and says i should know why shes mad or what to do. she cant ever make her own decisions but knows how to critique every one of mine. her attitude is atrocious and shes a bigot. i have no intention of my daughter ever learning hate for something as entry level as fucking skin color. WTF! sorry for whoever reads this but im just so upset. i dont want my kid to grow up with us apart but i then again it might be better than seeing her argue at me all the time. ......... god. well its getting late. good night computer world
okay before i go on heres the skinny. 3.5 years ago i was going to break with this girl ON THE EXACT same day i was going to call her she called me and told me she was pregnant. suffice to say pulling out is not a substitute for abstanence. so i decided i wasnt going to be like 95% other males and just leave. i mean, my pops escaped from me so i thought i would overcome the legacy. fastforward to the present. my nerves are shot. the only thing keeping me from leaving is my daughter. really the only thing good i got out of the relationship. this girl has pushed me to the limit. if my anger were measured in record sells i would be double platnium. she is so dependant on everything...every little decision. its so lame. the funny thing is when i make the shots, i end up shooting blanks. i never do anything right but she wont tell me how she wants it done. she just gets pissed and says i should know why shes mad or what to do. she cant ever make her own decisions but knows how to critique every one of mine. her attitude is atrocious and shes a bigot. i have no intention of my daughter ever learning hate for something as entry level as fucking skin color. WTF! sorry for whoever reads this but im just so upset. i dont want my kid to grow up with us apart but i then again it might be better than seeing her argue at me all the time. ......... god. well its getting late. good night computer world
dollbabyamy:
If you guys can't get along, you aren't providing your daughter with a good environment to grow up in. I mean, sure, it's great that she could say "I grew up with my Mom and Dad at the same house." but do you really want that statement to end with "But they fought all the time and were both really miserable"? She may get more out of her relationship with you and more out of her relationship with her mother if you guys were separated...because then the time you two spend arguing could be spent doing something for/with her, instead. As for not wanting her to grow up with her mother's characteristics, that's where you step in as Daddy. Show her there is more to the world than a bad attitude and bigotry. You can still be just as awesome of a parent, and just as much a part of her life even if you live in another house.