I really think that you're missing the point... A lot of us have enough trouble to gain acceptance from the rest of the world without being ridiculed by those within our own "community." It's not who you are attracted to. It's the way you chose to phrase your reasoning, and your words. It's that you called butches "scary," and backed up your logic by using the binary gender system, which all of us already get enough grief from.

When you're willing to accept that there's a range of what it is to be a "hot lesbian," that you don't have to be attracted to someone to be nice to them (and you did hurt the feelings of a lot of girls who consider themselves to be both lesbians and butches inside of our group), then please reapply, which is what GlassHeart told you to do in the first place. But please keep in mind that you never have the right to insult someone in a private community and expect to be treated with anything other than what you've shown them.

Additionally, this was the decision of the entire group, not just our peerless leader, so please direct your anger toward all of us without resorting to name-calling just one member.

and why on earth would you call GlassHeart butch?