dam girl your are in all sorts aren't you, and as I have yet to be in a relationship that has lasted longer than 5 years I am not one to give advise, I just hope it works out you, although it's not looking good for sailor boy from where i am sitting, I juts hope for you sake that the fallout is not to harsh.
Wow....that whole thing sounds sucky and dangerous!Don't let anyone take you for a ride. Sometimes its a good thing to put up a wall, if it means protecting yourself from a possible threat. If you are able to enjoy his company thats great, i just hope it isn't too hard when it comes time for him to leave. *hugs*
Well thats kind of a relief, you have a whole week to think things through. Its pretty unfair for him to throw that on you. How long has he been gone? A year? He could be a totally different person, for better or for worse..so he shouldn't just expect you to make decisions like that.
I cannot believe Australia day is only next week. This year has already started to wizz by!
oh sarah, yeah she works at sportsgirl. you have a crush on her? she is lovely.
i think its hard to break out of the habit of cheating, but i believe someone who has cheated in the past can be faithful, they just have to get out that habit!
if i were you i wouldnt even see that sailor guy... why bother putting yourself through that when he is just going to leave again.
I was always the same as you, I never wanted to get married or be with the same person forever. Waking up to the same miserable face everyday, no thanks. But it does change when you meet the right person. I know how corny it sounds but its true. I believe staying with someone because you thinks its what you should do or because its conveinient is crap. Its the easy excuse. But when you really do love someone you want to be with them forever. I'm not saying that its roses and violins everyday cos its not. Sometimes I want to punch my husband in the face and I know he feels the same way too but the good times far outweigh the bad. I want to kiss him alot more than I want to punch him. I can see myself in 50 years still laughing with him. But I have had to kiss a lot of frogs (way too many to admit) to find my prince. It happend when you don't expect it. You are only young. Stop thinking about love and the rest of your life. Think only about what makes you happy and free. When you are free then you are free to really love and be loved by someone.
As for the cheating... we have all done thing we wished we hadn't. Its ok.
Anyway I tend to go on and on. Sorry
I havent had a girlfriend since i was 18yo , i am now 25yo , almost 26yo.
I am happy as fuck being single , it gives you the freedom to do what ever you want when you want.
I am pretty sure i am going to be single all my life which i am fine with.
I have the idea of living in an up scale apartment building and working in a high paying good.
Being single ROCKS