If I may... I don't think the H pictures are such a good idea. The rest of them yes but not those. I just got this gut feeling.

Precisely. I would send them once you're settled so you can show him how good it is or whatever but not before. I just don't expect his reaction to be any more positive.

I think the idea of H talking to your dad directly is a good one. I hope your dad is receptive to it.

Absolutely. I'm pretty much available in the evening on a daily basis.

We got a 60 minute difference. I expect to be available around 9 PM (your time) but if that's too late i can try to make it 8:30 or so.

So... no luck