well if you dont want to talk to him then you shouldnt talk to him... even though you tell him in an email you dont think its a good idea or dont want to talk to him guys manufacture mixed signals.... i dont know the situation so take it for what its worth which is probly very little. he will get mad if you ignore him but at least he will get the signal
and yes you are a pansy. the surf is just starting to get good so et your ankle heal and buy a nice winter suit along with some gloves and boots if you dont already have them. waiting until the summer to surf with you would be way to long!!
I think that you definitely need to send the email. As much as it could be providing mixed signals, well, you have to follow it up by ignoring him if he contacts you. The reason mixed signals happen is if you KEEP being nice and considerate AFTER the email. That's what is confusing, and he will probably not believe your email, but you still need to send it so that you can point to it down the track and say: "See? Right here? This is where I explained myself and asked for consideration." That way, you don't need to feel bad about it because you laid it out and there was no way he could misunderstand.
Be honest and up-front, but not bitchy, in the email. Just tell him that you believe friendship involves trust and respect and you don't feel like you are being respected right now. Use lots of "I feel" statements and set out exactlfy what he's done that's hurt you without accusing him. This is just a setting out of facts that have led to your decision. Then send it. And block his email address or divert it into the delete folder. You don't care about his response BECAUSE if he is really your friend, he will respect your decision and leave it for some time.
Also - HOLA!!! I am in the middle of an intense stress-out of badness at work right now and will be living here for tonight, so it's all very crap. But hopefully I'll get through it and everything will be OK.
you are convinced?!?! seriously?!?! i thought i would have to be more manipulative and eventually get abusive hahaha wow unless you are just saying you are convinced. anyway if you need more convincing youve seen the sunrise on the ocean how about seeing a snowstorm!!! its possibly the most amazing thing in the world
anyway i fell in love with an australian girl less then a year ago so the ozzie girl has a good point... its hard to draw a line in the sand when the waves keep coming in. either way you cant win or loose its all a draw and its all up to him. good lucj
quick is something that never hapens... in fact my last 2 exs have become friends apparently and want me to get them tickets to my next show, how rediculous is that?!?! they should just be friends without me its strange enough with just one of them but how can i survive with them both around? haha oh well
well im glad you are easily convinced i will have to convince you to go to dinner with me sometime soon then
I am in the middle of an intense stress-out of badness at work right now and will be living here for tonight, so it's all very crap. But hopefully I'll get through it and everything will be OK.
and yes you are a pansy. the surf is just starting to get good so et your ankle heal and buy a nice winter suit along with some gloves and boots if you dont already have them. waiting until the summer to surf with you would be way to long!!