What a prick. Thats just rude to tell you those things. I'm sorry sweetie. I think your gorgious and would love to see you dance on a pole Fuck that guy. Hes just a dick. I love ya sweetie

*Hugs!*

what an asshole! I know exactly what you mean because I have been big for quite a while.... I have never understood why people would feel it was ok to say shit like that.... I hope he got a lesson beat into him!

I'm sorry that happened.... my mom used to say things to my sister in law about her weight.... she was trying to be helpful but my mom is skinny so she has never ever been big and she just doesn't get it.... so one day we were riding home together from a visit to my brothers and I said 'mom you shouldn't say things like that about Arlinda's weight.... she is always trying a diet and the new wonder pill and some of those things are dangerous..... Just keep it to yourself and if she talks about it to you just be supportive, I am pretty sure she knows that she is overweight. I mean she is the one with the bad knees because of it... and she is the one that never sets foot on the beach when we go because of it. Just leave it alone...' My mom was upset... with me for the way I said is and then she thought about it and realized I was right.... so she doesn't mention it anymore she just is supportive when my sisnlaw talks about it.... Some people don't get it and some people mean nothing mean by it.... Then there is the ass fuck you encountered who needed his ass beat....

I'm so sorry to hear about that shit!!! Makes me mad!! I hope that you're okay. I know it's hard not to let comments like that affect you, but please know that not everyone sees you like that. What is most important is how you see yourself. That guy was a fuckface, and there are fuckfaces everywhere who will always find something wrong with somebody. Please try not to let it get you down, sweetheart. I know that's easier said than done, but remember that everyone else had good things to say. That is a lot more meaningful that what one imbecile with a big mouth and probably little self-worth had to say. Stand tall and be proud, pretty girl.

awe girl...i wish that wouldn't have happened to you. i wish people didn't act that way. i hope you are feeling better and girl to me YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL......

fuck those guys!!!

Some people shouldn't have the ability to go out where other humans are. Seriously. This is why I talk to very few people in real life. Most of them turn out to be garbage.

((((hugs))))

And if it cheers you up at all, you can borrow DaddyX for free tonight.

:hugs:

Just want to kick ppls face in when they tell me about losing weight. I tend to be a little heavier since I was a teen but with the meds they have me on nowadays its just too much to keep it off. I am glad they were taken care of for you.

not too long ago I tried on the bridesmaid dress I am to wear in november. Made me cry listening to my mom lecture my grandmother (she knew that I didn't want to try it on for her. because what her reaction would be) from behind the bathroom door. Doesn't help the dress wasn't bought for me and it is a bit smaller than me. Now I get to be the fat sister standing there with all the skinny girls in a strappy dress. grr

I'm glad to hear you held you head up high to an extent I know exactly how you feel I'm now still six foot four but I weigh alot more than i did 10 years ago I go through the same things you do all the time I hate it but I usually just blow it off I'm a nice guy so either like me for who i am or don't bother at all I hope you fell better soon I kinda figured something was up no cute pic in my journal today I look forward to them every day

Fuck that guy.And about the health thing. Don't worry so much.It has been shown that it does not matter how heavy someone is as long as they are active (pole dancing is fucking active as anything). I've seen your pictures, I know you are beautiful outside and inside.

I know exactly how you felt, but at least the guy got what he deserved. To me it doesn't get much worse than someone making fun of me. I can handle a lot of other shit, but that is the worst.

I use to be a bouncer in a night club in Dallas, and on a few occasions we had to throw someone out for grabbing women or being an asshole, we always threw them out the back door and had a little fun beating the shit out of them first. I just remember picturing the guy I was beating up being someone who use to make fun of me.

holy shit. people are assholes. I say that like I am shocked.

much love. fuck em.

That's really not cool of them. Some people just suck.

I wish I could give you a big hug. Reading that brought tears to my eyes. I can so relate to the feelings you expressed.


Tell Tommy he rocks hardcore. I would like to rip those fuckers new assholes.


By the way, you are beautiful. I know you don't need me to tell you that, but I am only speaking the truth.

I love you sweetie. I wonder what people like that are missing in their lives that make them say those things.

Fucking ASSHOLES!!!!!!!!!!!
that is so fucked up!!!! i cannot tell you how pissed i am at this
being a rather large person myself i know exactly what your talking about,i have the same defenses and reactions.I know it has been said by many and i don't expect these words coming from me to be of any help but i just want to go on record as saying you are without a doubt one of the 5 sexiest people i have ever had the privilage of talking to and that is from the heart . hope you feel better and you don't let this keep you down long

XOXO

I don't understand why some people are such assholes. I never will. I am so sorry those fuckers were there to ruin a perfectly good evening. And I would have loved watching him get thrown out of the bar. It is so easy for fuckers to pick on us cute round girls, they aren't even creative enough to insult us on something other than the obvious. I hate that shit and again I am so sorry.

I like your profile pic and wanted to say your story made me speechless.

i wish i would have decided to read your journal a lot earlier than i did. i tried to give you a call but your cell is really stupid as usual (you really need to get a new one with all of your awesome tips )

I would have beaten the shit out of that guy for ya.

I would have liked to kick that fuckers ass. Fuck them, you are beautiful. They didn't deserve seeing your beauty.

aw, shit man. i know working retail isn't anything like working the pole but lemme just tell you that kind of shit's happened to me over and over and over and over...and over...in school they called me "big johnson," "lazy boy" etc. at work fuckheads would come to my checkout line so they could fucking harrass me...you handled it so much better than i've ever been able to. you see, as much as it sounds like fun to lash out and beat the piss out of people, that's the only way i really knew how to deal with it. so instead of quietly and nobly making other people look like asses, i would just got fucking nuts and cuss them out and swing at them...which always gave the bastards another chance to crack a few jokes, while at the same time making me look like a RETARD. so, honey, cheers to you for dealing with WV rednecks and all of their infinite stupidity. you keep wrapping 'round that pole. you're "the whole tree" dammit.

Assholes. Maybe they're the ones who need to take a good look in the mirror and figure out what's wrong there. Anybody that mean and ignorant doesn't deserve to have you get all upset over what they think, y'know?

Fuck 'em...you're hot...we know it, you know it, everyone knows it. For every asshole that might judge you for your size, there are at least 2-3 waiting patiently to admire you for being the goddess that you are.

I say fuck 'em. Fuck 'em all raw with a rusty tire iron.